Because I've been thinking about this for such a long time, and I have actually forgotten my conclusion, here I am to talk about it now, to jolt my memory a bit.

If love needs a reason, then it just isn't love anymore. Someone once told me, it's dangerous to fall in love without a reason, she meant that what if the person will not make a good husband or father, or otherwise, a good partner. To me, those are not reasons for falling in love with a person. I love him because he would make a good partner, or that he would help me in my career, if you can say that about your current flame, if you can explain love, just as how I shall hereby declare that I am not (and cannot be) explaining love (because I believe no one can truly do so), then I can only announce that you have not been in love, sadly so.

You may argue, how do I know? How can I know? I am not you. That is correct. I am not you, so I shall not try to judge your love relationships. What I can, however, hope to achieve is that you will have the better knowledge of judging your own relationships and to express my very humble opinions.

Scientifically speaking, love is but made up of chemicals, hormones and genes. What is this thing love? That enslaves so many of us. No, wait, let me rephrase that, that all of us willingly enslave ourselves to. Is the human will too weak, that we cannot resist the temptation of the workings of our own chemicals? Mere hormones I tell you. No, that is not it. Love is so much more, that we cannot even begin to imagine and that words alone cannot describe it fully and do it the justice and honour it deserves. We are not weak, it is only because we choose to love because we know how love drives us to be better.

Alright, idealistic I admit I have been. To pull things more down to earth from the stars I have been hanging the letters l-o-v-e on, why do I hate him, I can list a thousand reasons, but if you ask me, why do I love him, I can give you none. Yet, despite his annoying habits or bad character, I love him so much. There is just no explanation for my loving. If you say that because he has a good career, he can give me the life I wish to lead, he makes the best dad, those are not reasons why you love him, those are the reasons why you chose to stay with him and be bounded in holy matrimony. Loving someone is about character, not the fringe benefits from his status in society. Having said that, it still does not fully sum up love, because, still you cannot say that I love him because he is smart or that he has integrity. The smartness just allows better communications between the two of you (which leads to better understanding and a better relationship, more love being generated), better genes to be passed on to your offsprings, so that you never have to worry about life (because he will take care of his own and yours as well), and so on and so forth.

While it is huge misconception that people say I just love his smartness, it just bowls me over. Well, there, it seems that I have just contradicted myself, there's a reason for loving. Like I'd like to highlight, misconception, huge, because while you love his smartness, it is not why you love him. You love him as a whole, there is no sole reason for loving any one person. And because you love everything about the person, it becomes impossible to list down why you love him anymore, because, well, you just do. And, at the end of this short essay, that is all that really matters, I love you. No reason whatsoever.

I love the way you style your hair;
I love the way you touch me;
I love the way you kiss me;
I love the way you do everything;
I even love the way you leave the toilet seat down, even though that annoys me like hell;
I even love the way you scold me for being tardy, because that shows how much you care;
I love it when you knock my head and tell me to be more realistic;
I just love you for you, and I realise that, there is no reason for loving you, there is only a reason I was attracted to you in the first place.

If you can love the person for who he or she really is, I do not mean being blind to his or her faults because that can be done with high levels of love hormones and genes, and when that wears off, the consequences may be very undesirable. I mean, if you can love his faults, then you can safely say, I promise to love him and honour him and be bounded in holy matrimony with him, because I am confident that I will never leave him and that I truly love him, just the way he is.

Not easy to find one, but when you have, not difficult to achieve.

In a relationship, it takes two hands to clap, while the above rings true, I am afraid, it all boils down to whether your partner feels the same way about you. With that, I conclude.

Because I've been thinking about this for such a long time, and I have actually forgotten my conclusion, here I am to talk about it now, to jolt my memory a bit.

If love needs a reason, then it just isn't love anymore. Someone once told me, it's dangerous to fall in love without a reason, she meant that what if the person will not make a good husband or father, or otherwise, a good partner. To me, those are not reasons for falling in love with a person. I love him because he would make a good partner, or that he would help me in my career, if you can say that about your current flame, if you can explain love, just as how I shall hereby declare that I am not (and cannot be) explaining love (because I believe no one can truly do so), then I can only announce that you have not been in love, sadly so.

You may argue, how do I know? How can I know? I am not you. That is correct. I am not you, so I shall not try to judge your love relationships. What I can, however, hope to achieve is that you will have the better knowledge of judging your own relationships and to express my very humble opinions.

Scientifically speaking, love is but made up of chemicals, hormones and genes. What is this thing love? That enslaves so many of us. No, wait, let me rephrase that, that all of us willingly enslave ourselves to. Is the human will too weak, that we cannot resist the temptation of the workings of our own chemicals? Mere hormones I tell you. No, that is not it. Love is so much more, that we cannot even begin to imagine and that words alone cannot describe it fully and do it the justice and honour it deserves. We are not weak, it is only because we choose to love because we know how love drives us to be better.

Alright, idealistic I admit I have been. To pull things more down to earth from the stars I have been hanging the letters l-o-v-e on, why do I hate him, I can list a thousand reasons, but if you ask me, why do I love him, I can give you none. Yet, despite his annoying habits or bad character, I love him so much. There is just no explanation for my loving. If you say that because he has a good career, he can give me the life I wish to lead, he makes the best dad, those are not reasons why you love him, those are the reasons why you chose to stay with him and be bounded in holy matrimony. Loving someone is about character, not the fringe benefits from his status in society. Having said that, it still does not fully sum up love, because, still you cannot say that I love him because he is smart or that he has integrity. The smartness just allows better communications between the two of you (which leads to better understanding and a better relationship, more love being generated), better genes to be passed on to your offsprings, so that you never have to worry about life (because he will take care of his own and yours as well), and so on and so forth.

While it is huge misconception that people say I just love his smartness, it just bowls me over. Well, there, it seems that I have just contradicted myself, there's a reason for loving. Like I'd like to highlight, misconception, huge, because while you love his smartness, it is not why you love him. You love him as a whole, there is no sole reason for loving any one person. And because you love everything about the person, it becomes impossible to list down why you love him anymore, because, well, you just do. And, at the end of this short essay, that is all that really matters, I love you. No reason whatsoever.

I love the way you style your hair;
I love the way you touch me;
I love the way you kiss me;
I love the way you do everything;
I even love the way you leave the toilet seat down, even though that annoys me like hell;
I even love the way you scold me for being tardy, because that shows how much you care;
I love it when you knock my head and tell me to be more realistic;
I just love you for you, and I realise that, there is no reason for loving you, there is only a reason I was attracted to you in the first place.

If you can love the person for who he or she really is, I do not mean being blind to his or her faults because that can be done with high levels of love hormones and genes, and when that wears off, the consequences may be very undesirable. I mean, if you can love his faults, then you can safely say, I promise to love him and honour him and be bounded in holy matrimony with him, because I am confident that I will never leave him and that I truly love him, just the way he is.

Not easy to find one, but when you have, not difficult to achieve.

In a relationship, it takes two hands to clap, while the above rings true, I am afraid, it all boils down to whether your partner feels the same way about you. With that, I conclude.